http://www.soulgardeners.com/2009/05/bored-with-christianity-not-jesus.html#comments
The first comment made in the above mentioned blog post shows me the problem with the church. They strive for numbers of people, rather than to stretch people, and justify it by saying that you must make everybody feel comfortable.
May I never sit in church or home church, and feel comfortable in my life. I want to be challenged constantly, and face the attacks, with the help of God!


